Quiet Confidence: How to Embrace Your Natural Style When Speaking a Foreign Language

Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about quiet confidence - that calm, steady assurance that doesn’t need to announce itself loudly to be felt.

You know the type of person: they may not say much, but when they do, their words hit just the right note. That’s the essence of quiet confidence. It radiates reflection, calm, and an inner security that speaks louder than any show of bravado ever could.

I’m bringing this up because I often hear my clients say,

"I want to speak German with more confidence, but I don’t know how. I’m naturally introverted."

But introverted and confident aren’t opposites.

Confidence isn’t about being the loudest in the room. It’s not about speaking the most or showing off. In fact, sometimes the louder the voice, the less it reflects true self-assurance.

Real confidence is about feeling grounded in who you are and what you know.

If you’re naturally extroverted and expressive, it shines through your enthusiasm and energy.

If you’re more reserved, your confidence shows in your quiet strength and thoughtful presence.

Both are equally powerful.

There’s no one-size-fits-all when it comes to confidence. It's not about changing your personality - it’s about fully owning it.

When you're learning a foreign language, like German, this can feel like an extra layer of difficulty. You’re navigating not just new words and grammar, but also a new way of expressing your inner self.

But trust me - it’s absolutely possible.

You can build confidence in your own authentic way, without needing to "become someone else."

Curious about how to tap into your natural style while speaking German (or any new language)?

Drop a comment below! I'd love to hear your thoughts.